She didn't play. In fact, she didn't stop sobbing the entire time. It was a fake sob and that made it 1,000 times worse. She did at least sit on the sidelines where the rest of the team waited to be substituted into the game. When any of her teammates approached her she immediately put her face in her hands and started sobbing harder. I was thinking that maybe it was her embarrassment that was making her cry harder...or maybe that's just me projecting.?
Saturday, September 18, 2010
Our first soccer game of the season
She didn't play. In fact, she didn't stop sobbing the entire time. It was a fake sob and that made it 1,000 times worse. She did at least sit on the sidelines where the rest of the team waited to be substituted into the game. When any of her teammates approached her she immediately put her face in her hands and started sobbing harder. I was thinking that maybe it was her embarrassment that was making her cry harder...or maybe that's just me projecting.?
Thursday, September 16, 2010
Our cat and our dog
Speaking of Halloween, I got costumes for the girls today. Sophia is going to be Dorothy from the Wizard of Oz and Lilly is going to be Raggedy Ann. Done! One month early. I even have the shoes for Sophia's costume...and, just like Dorothy, she will not remove from her feet (as evidenced in the photo). She absolutely loves her new sparkly red shoes.
My latest rant
The philosophy's of the school seem to be a bit different than mine. I am way more interested in having Lilly learn things (like colors and shapes) rather than play all day. It seems like this school is way more focused on open, free play and...chapel. Lots of moms have different opinions on preschools and mine is not necessarily the best philosophy, but I think for my girls it's the way I want their social school engagements to go.
This is what I know they do on a daily basis:
- Open free play. When I drop her off all the kids are playing with toys scattered around the room. I don't think the room has nearly enough books to hold Lilly's attention for very long. As a coincidence, Lilly's teachers sent home a Scholastic Books fundraiser catalog and order form. It was NOT accompanied by a note of any kind. I thought that was pretty poor. I don't even know when the deadline is. On the order form it reads something like "If you place your order online then your classroom will earn a book". I will definitely be placing my order online.
- Go outside and play on the playground. I must confess it's an awesome playground. When Will and I used to attend service at that church we donated to the playground fund so it's nice that Lilly can take advantage of our contribution.
- Free play...yes, more free play. Sometimes they will get out play doh so I'm told.
- Circle time. I think the teachers read a story to the kids. I'm not really quite sure what goes on in circle time other than that.
- Potty/wash hands.
- Snack.
- More open play. When I pick her up at the end of the day she is again playing with toys scattered across the room.
- On Wednesday mornings they have chapel. I think they are a little too young to be marched down to the chapel and forced to sit quiet and still for 30 minutes. Don't get me wrong, I'm all for learning to say a prayer before snack, but I just think the chapel part is a little too much. Instead of chapel, I would like to see her do a craft of some sort, any sort. She's gone to school for 3 days now and has yet to bring home any artwork or craft. She did bring home a small fistful of homemade blue play doh on Monday, but come on!
- Blue (do they study it on a daily basis? I'm not sure.) They are supposed to be studying the color blue this month. Lilly does not know her colors. (Sophia and I are working with her, but everything is either YELL WOAH or GEEN.) Each month they will focus on different color. What a great way to have them learn colors. I feel like they could take it one step further and at least provide color pages and blue crayons if not a craft of some sort (are you seeing a pattern here). She has been to school for 2 weeks and hasn't brought home a single thing. When Sophia was in her 2-yr old preschool program she brought home a craft and a color page every day. They practiced things like pasting and eventually cutting. As a side note, I have dressed Lilly in blue every day to help her to learn the color. The teachers haven't said anything about it. Oh well. Perhaps I'm expecting too much.
When I went to orientation I asked if they have parties and celebrate things like Valentine's Day and Halloween. The teacher, Ms. Brenda, looked at me like I was a little nuts. She said they do things for those holidays. I hope they make a big deal out of it because Sophia's school does and I would hate for Lilly to feel excluded from all the fun.
I have yet to receive a class roster. I'm not sure if I'll ever get one.
Every day when I pick her up I ask how she was. They always say Good! That's it. No more no less. I have no idea if she's actually using the potty there or not. (I keep forgetting to ask, but you think they would tell me or at least give me a hint.) She always has on a new pull-up when I pick her up.
As far as I can tell, they do not have a computer to play with or to even use once a week. Bummer! Sophia had computer time in her 2-yr class. She also had music once a week. I'm assuming Lilly is getting some sort of music because they will perform in a Christmas show.
I can't wait for next year until she's in Beach Manor and I hope this year isn't a waste. I know she's going to learn socialization (and cleaning up) and will make some new friends which I'm thrilled about. I've been scoping out the moms and I see two that have little girls (Gracie and Quinn, I think) in her class and I think I would mesh with them. The moms look to be about my age, maybe a little younger. They are already friends so it might be kind of hard to crack that shell, but maybe Lilly and their girls will do it for us. I would like for Lilly to have a set of friends just like Sophia does.
OK. It's 8am and both girls are still sleeping so I need to take advantage of this quiet time.
Thanks for reading my rant.
Fishing
She was so proud of herself when she first figured out how to "catch a fish".
She's starting to get really good at crafts and art work. Her fine motor skills are really improving in the way that she moves objects across the paper now. She's scribbling circles and tonight she even painted a tiny stained glass princess art thing for the window. I told her to paint Jasmine's shoes and, by George, she did! She also painted her hair. I noticed tonight that she was painting with her left hand. I wonder if she'll be a lefty? Uncle Rob is left-handed.
Wednesday, September 15, 2010
A stroll around Mulberry loop
Sophia rode her "big girl" bike the whole way. It's the first time she's been on this bike. It's a tricycle with training wheels, but it also has back pedal breaks. The breaks were tripping Sophia up every now and then because she wouldn't mean to back pedal, but the bike would stop on her.
Friday, September 10, 2010
First week of school
Lilly doesn't have school on Fridays so she and I headed off for a fun morning together. We took a Kindermusik class and had fun with a few other kids.
Tuesday, September 07, 2010
Last days of summer...
Anyway...school begins tomorrow! I get a bit of my sanity back. Will gets a little extra peace and quite during business hours and the girls get to have fun making new friends and learning how to share. It's a win win for all of us.
Friday, September 03, 2010
Baby Jonas
I flew down to meet Jonas and to give some moral support to Claire and Craig after Jonas returned home from his stint in the hospital. I was there for 3 days. I did a bit of this and a bit of that to help them out. Seriously, they barely took me up on my nap suggestions. Also, Claire's work is calling her and has come by twice to drop off a laptop and some cds & paperwork. Crazy. Jonas just celebrated his 7 day old birthday while I was there. Come on, people.
The girls were glad that I was home, but I wasn't! It looked like a whore-i-cane ripped through every single room.
Jonas is a good eater and sleeper right now. He doesn't wail out at all. He might give a small whimper once a day, but not much more. He's definitely what you call an easy baby, but I wonder if that means that they will have a hard toddler? Gosh, I hope not.
Saturday, August 28, 2010
Yay Lilly!
Friday, August 27, 2010
What a disaster!
Lilly was also very curious about the baby. She rocked him in his car seat, covered him with his blanket and tried to give him his paci a hundred times.
The girls had a great time, but man the house was a wreck. When they left I sent Sophia to her room for quiet time and told her to clean everything up. She actually did! I was really proud of her.
Her robot
Lilly has a cute little robe that she calls her ROBOT. It used to be Sophia's when she was younger, but now it belongs to Lilly and she loves wearing it after her baths. It's so cute when she says I WEAR MY ROBOT, MOMMY.
Thursday, August 26, 2010
Body painting
Sophia was thrilled with herself because not only did she get to paint all over herself, but then she got to take a shower which is her new favorite thing to do. She's turning into quite the shower hog.
Wednesday, August 25, 2010
All alone at the botanical gardens
The botanical garden has story hour every Wednesday and since there are only a few Wednesdays left before school starts I took the girls today. It was just the three of us and we had a fun time without anyone else tagging along. We didn't spend much time in the sprinklers, but instead walked around the grounds trying to "rescue Snow White" (a made-up game of Sophia's) and then spent some time in the Enchanted Storybook Forest.
They have seven houses for the kids to play in:The Three Little Pigs
Little Red Riding Hood
Huck Fin
Alice in Wonderland
The Crooked Man
The Old Lady Who Lived in the Shoe
Old MacDonald
The girls liked exploring every nook and cranny of the houses since there wasn't a whole lot of people there today. At the very end of the day they finally made a friend and had a tea party with her for 1/2 hour in the Alice in Wonderland house.
Partners in crime
Lilly has a PAPPY (paci) in her crib. It's supposed to be used only at night, but she often runs up to her room and tries to reach it in the crib. Sometimes she succeeds. Sometimes she doesn't. She asks me for it and I always tell her NO! When I don't give in she immediately calls out Sophia's name to see if she'll cave and give her the PAPPY. Sophia thinks she's clever whenever she helps Lilly out with the paci.
Friday, August 20, 2010
Sophia got to plant a flower seed in a bio-degradable flower pot (basically it was newspaper rolled up to look like a flower pot). Lilly planted one too, but her pot fell apart before we left.
Botanical Garden
We're off to the Botanical Garden today with the neighbor girls, Lauren and Olivia. I ran into their mom, Michelle, yesterday at Walmart and since we have barely seen each other this entire summer we decided to take a trip to the sprinkler garden today. Look for some photos later today.
Thursday, August 19, 2010
A visit to the doctor
Both girls had to visit the doctor yesterday for their annual appointments. We were there for exactly 2 hours. Boy was Will irritated that it took so long.
Both girls had to get shots. Lilly didn't even cry when she got hers, but Sophia screamed bloody murder and is still limping around the house complaining that her leg hurts.
Sophia is charting at the size of a 6-yr old, but we already knew that and the doc predicted that she'll be 5 ft 11 inches tall. She currently weighs 51 pounds and is 46 inches tall. After her shots she got to pick out a few stickers. She took every single Snow White sticker in the bin (seven in total).
Lilly is in the 90% percentile in height which surprised us. She had a major growth spurt and grew 4 inches since her 18-month appointment. She weighs 29 pounds 3.5 ounces and is 36 inches tall. Lilly picked out a Thomas the Train sticker and I grabbed a few Hello Kitty ones for her too.
Lilly has to go back at 2.5 years old. Sophia doesn't have to go back until she's 5.
Both girls enjoyed receiving their free book or BOOKY, as Lilly called it. Lately she's been adding the EEEEE sound to the end of everything. BOOKY, DRINKY, BLANKEY, etc.
Both girls had to get shots. Lilly didn't even cry when she got hers, but Sophia screamed bloody murder and is still limping around the house complaining that her leg hurts.
Sophia is charting at the size of a 6-yr old, but we already knew that and the doc predicted that she'll be 5 ft 11 inches tall. She currently weighs 51 pounds and is 46 inches tall. After her shots she got to pick out a few stickers. She took every single Snow White sticker in the bin (seven in total).
Lilly is in the 90% percentile in height which surprised us. She had a major growth spurt and grew 4 inches since her 18-month appointment. She weighs 29 pounds 3.5 ounces and is 36 inches tall. Lilly picked out a Thomas the Train sticker and I grabbed a few Hello Kitty ones for her too.
Lilly has to go back at 2.5 years old. Sophia doesn't have to go back until she's 5.
Both girls enjoyed receiving their free book or BOOKY, as Lilly called it. Lately she's been adding the EEEEE sound to the end of everything. BOOKY, DRINKY, BLANKEY, etc.
Sunday, August 15, 2010
Birthday Party
Will spent the entire 2.5 hours in the pool throwing the girls around and was exhausted when we got home. He also got a lot of color from the sun reflecting off the water.
Sophia was like a fish in the water. She got to play with Haley the entire time too. The two of them swam their little butts off, ate pizza and cake, and squirted each other with a bazooka water gun.
I got to talk to Haley's mom, Michelle. We haven't seen much of them this summer because of our busy summer travel schedule.
Saturday, August 14, 2010
Out for the night
Will and I recently had our 6th wedding anniversary. Tonight we're going out to celebrate. We've got a sitter coming to watch the kids and we're going out to dinner and a movie. Aren't we lucky?
______________UPDATE_______________
We're back from our night out. It was really nice to have some alone time, adult conversation and a beverage or two. We tried a new Greek restaurant (thumbs down) then walked to the movie theater. We saw Inception. It was a fast paced drama with tons of twists and turns. We really enjoyed it. - Will a little bit more than me.
The sitter, Amy, told us that Lilly helped herself to the dinner that she brought for herself. She thought it was hysterical. Lilly ate her fries and her pickles. Cute.
______________UPDATE_______________
We're back from our night out. It was really nice to have some alone time, adult conversation and a beverage or two. We tried a new Greek restaurant (thumbs down) then walked to the movie theater. We saw Inception. It was a fast paced drama with tons of twists and turns. We really enjoyed it. - Will a little bit more than me.
The sitter, Amy, told us that Lilly helped herself to the dinner that she brought for herself. She thought it was hysterical. Lilly ate her fries and her pickles. Cute.
Another first
No, I'm not writing about any of Lilly's firsts, but Sophia made me very proud this morning when she took her very first shower. I've offered countless times before for her to join me, but she's always seriously been too scared to take me up on it.
This morning she decided it was time for her to take a shower. She announced that she wanted to take a shower and then marched right upstairs into her bathroom, got in the shower and then asked me to leave the room so she could have some privacy! I didn't, of course. She even washed and rinsed her own hair.
My little baby is growing up. Yesterday she got her first hair cut that wasn't straight around in the back. Because her hair was getting so tangled and it really hurt her when I brushed it, I decided it was time for her to get her hair cut. I'm thrilled with the results. I took her to her "kid" salon and asked to keep the length in the front, but to have the back stacked with layers. It looks really cute. I do wish I would have asked the girl to cut it a little bit shorter. I'll probably take her back for a trim just before school starts in a month.
This morning she decided it was time for her to take a shower. She announced that she wanted to take a shower and then marched right upstairs into her bathroom, got in the shower and then asked me to leave the room so she could have some privacy! I didn't, of course. She even washed and rinsed her own hair.
Thursday, August 12, 2010
Our Visit to Nana & Poppy's House
Nana and Poppy both went to work on Wednesday so the girls and I were on our own. We ended up going to Target and then McDonald's so the girls could play on the outdoor playground. They really enjoyed it and the weather was beautiful. It was nice and hot. When we got back home my Aunts came for a short visit. Shirley and Donna are my mom's sisters. Sophia performed for them the entire time. At one point she was falling on the ground and Lilly was laughing her head off at the commotion. This continued for a long time..(smile)..making it hard to hold a conversation.
I was excited to take the girls because it would be their first time at an amusement park and I was curious to see their reaction to all of it, especially the rides. When I was a little girl my parents took me to Idelwild. My dad also frequented the park with his parents when he was a little boy. Wow. I guess it's some sort of a tradition. Hopefully some day Sophia and Lilly will want to take their children to the park.
I thought both girls would be thrilled about the Story Book Village stroll. Maybe it's because it was the first thing we did and the girls were trying to overcome their confusion about where they were, what they were supposed to be doing, and why there were so many people milling around, but the girls didn't really care for this part. We walked along the path and saw the homes of The Three Bears, Snow White, and Little Red Riding Hood and walked by or in about 25 other nursery rhyme displays. I was certain the girls would love it. Shows you what I know. Sophia fained a bit of interest, but mostly acted bored/aloof and Lilly wouldn't get out of my arms to look at anything. I thought it was going to be a flop of a day, but it immediately got better when we rode the train and then went to explore other parts of the park.
I was a little worried that Sophia would be scared of the rides. I was actually prepared to spend all day in kiddie land (or Raccoon Lagoon as it was called) just to build up her confidence to ride some of the rides. I thought Lilly would be ready and willing to ride and I was right. She got right on and loved every minute of it. Smiling and waving each time she rode by. What I couldn't have imagined was that Sophia would also love the rides and would get so bored with the kiddie rides so quickly. Well, maybe I could have guessed it when I saw her mocking another girl holding her hands up in the air on the mini roller coaster. Oh my gosh! My head must have done a full 360 when I saw her. Was this child really Sophia? Was she seriously not holding on AND enjoying it? Incredible.
After that we decided to hit the adult rides in "Olde Idelwild". She was tall enough to ride everything with an adult and so was Lilly in some cases so all five of us eventually did get to ride a few things. As it turns out Sophia loves all the rides. She really doesn't have a preference between the spinning rides and the roller coasters. She actually rode her very first "Rollo Coaster". She sat in the very first car with Poppy. I sat behind them. After she tackled that one with ease, I took her on the Log Jammer. That was the last ride we did before leaving the park. I thought we would get really wet, but as it turns out only our legs got wet. Sophia jumped off the ride and shouted I GOT SOAKED! (Ha ha ha) We left the park around 7 pm and got home at 8:30.We also briefly ran into Aunt Carole again, but we got separated in the crowds and never managed to hook back up. We bought our bbq chicken and then went home. The girls were completely exhausted from the hot sun beating down on them all day and from waiting in the long line for chicken. Sophia resorted to rolling down a grassy hill and got grass stains all over her pants and then decided it was fun to push Lilly down the hill too. A small price to pay for the hours of fun we had.
On Monday morning we headed back to Northern VA for Grancy's birthday and to see and congratulate Uncle Rob and Aunt Christina. They just got engaged and have asked the girls to be the flower girls in the wedding. I can't wait.
We're glad to be home and don't have any travel plans for a while plus school starts in three and a half weeks. Time for some back to school shopping....and time to sign off for the night.
Tuesday, August 10, 2010
Idelwild Park
The trek to PA was a bit of a spur of the moment idea. Will and I were initially heading to Fairfax for Claire's baby shower and I decided to continue on to PA for a visit with my family. We stayed for almost a week. After the shower Will went back to Virginia Beach and was by himself for 7 days. The girls and I were gone for a total of 10 days. We're all glad to be back together.
Here are some pictures of our first few days at my parent's house and a few pictures from our trip to Idelwild Park. Sophia rode her first "Rollo Coaster" as they call it. She sat with Poppy and I sat behind them in the very first seat. I think she was terrified, but she really enjoyed it! She got off smiling and was so proud that she rode it. The last ride of the day was the Log Jammer. We went on it together and barely got wet. She remembers getting SOAKED.
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